How much more there is than tight definitions of friendship and love.
I finally dropped all the definitions some weeks ago.
I don't believe in them anymore. Not at all. They are not for me. I try to show with my deeds, how to deal with this lack.
I think I'm doing pretty well.
With German hip hop I somehow started to like, tobacco smoke I somehow stopped to be annoyed with, scent of spray paint, lots of alcohol-free beer, art-work moods, never-ending trouble-talks, night sandwich toasting, learning, inspiring and being inspired, opening hearts, ultimate trust and ultimate intimacy.
All of a sudden another little parallel world grew up close at hand.
We do our best.